I very much distinguish between different forms of relationships, against the majority of people that can only see a form of relationship. But if you do not have the ability to divide relationships into small pieces, then fear, prejudice and hatred are automatically created. It is in circumstances where the parties can only see a form of relationship that problems and arbitration arise.
Independent sex relationships.
For me, a hug and a kiss is not about sex. Sex for me is touching and affecting the body's private parts.
I do not have much sex, although I like it, but for me love and six are different things that should not be mixed up, and I prefer love before sex. But of course, if I have sex, it is only protected sex, I never accept unprotected sex.
I prefer open friendships, preferably with several. I have no problems with sex without demands together with friends. I don't understand jealousy because you can't own other people and freedom in all forms is very important to me. If you lock someone in, he'll do anything to escape. But if you give freedom, there is no need to flee so he stays forever.
I'm not dependent on a certain gender or age, it's up to what people are, but of course they have to be legal in the country I'm in, but the legal age is different around the world.
All people are possible for love and all legal people for sex as well.
I am not locked in that sex has happened in one bedroom and that the actual intercourse must be done in the usual way or with just two together. I'm open to everything. Although I prefer younger people than myself, they also make me younger. And since I am very young for my age, I feel best with younger people. And if it's just "one night stand", only the outside is interesting.
Even the most devoted atheists become very religious and often refer to the Bible they never have read as soon as it talked about homosexuality. But for me, a body is a body no matter how it is created, whether the hole is on the front or the back it doesn't matter as long as the person wearing it is nice and soft to hug and want me.
Independent love relationships.
A relationship that is only based on love can have many faces. For example, this may be a relationship with an animal, a child, another adult, a thing, a country, a car etc. This form of relationship does not work with people who think that one must have sex in all relationships.
So in a love affair, nothing else matters but that we thrive together. Although this is very close to an ordinary friendship, but there is a big difference. You can love a friend too, but it's not a relationship. Friends are there no matter where in the world you are, while a love relationship is a relationship where you live together but built on love without sex and can end as all relationship when the love go away.
I'm more interested in intelligence, maturity and personality than anything else, but that have nothing to do with age. I have see many mature adolescents and many immature adults. And I like people who working and want to live independent of other. And sex is a very small part of a relationship, even if you have sex every day, most of the time is without sex. And it is the time that is important that it works in a relationship.
Independent sex and love relationship
I can have a solid relationship withonly one if it is right person, but prefer open relationship, partly because I am very flirtatious and because I do not understand jealousy. My partner must accept and respect my way of life, I will not change my lifestyle, and best is if we both have a similar lifestyle. But it is a matter of course to share the common costs if we live together.
Independent open relationship
An open relationship is difficult requiring more of each other, such as, honesty, respect and trust. An open relationship does not mean we can have sex however we want, but it does mean that we can have sex sometimes after we have honestly discussed with our partner in advance and be able to offer one's partner to be with. Open means 2 + 1 not 1-1 + 1 on the day you want to keep an extra relationship secret from your partner in an open relationship, that day the relationship is over.
I accept that my partner is free as long as it is honest, we are at parties are hugs and kisses accepted as long as it applies to both. Sex is ok as long as it is not secret, and an offer to 3-edge must be included, says the 3rd person no, the couple has to say no. Thus, it is always the couple who takes the lead. I think this kind of relationship works best in gay relationships. Girls have often more problem with jealousy. The most I have relationship I have had before was open and if both partners can talk open and honest about sex with each other it will working best.
My past relationships have always been open to each other, and they have always been self-sufficient partners. As you understood after reading this text, those who want a relationship with me must be independent and open minded and free from prejudices, taboos and jealousy and if we have sex they also need to be legal.
If you make money for love, it's prostitution and if I have to pay a prostitute or escort, he / she will be extremely perfect in every way. And a long relationship is not to think, paid love requires variation. And paid love is not only when you sell sex on a street or at bars but also when you use your partner to get money without having to work, just because you are together.
Most relationship I've been to in the past have been more escort than prostitutes. The difference is small, prostitutes sell love while the escort sells friendship. The eskort rarely wants sex, just easy-earned money. But a relationship without sex is not an option, if I have to pay.
As soon as there is only one income in a relationship, it thinks or wishes without income that it becomes a granddaughter / son relationship, where dad pays and the child does not have to do anything.
Of course it is not, it automatically becomes a master and slave relationship, because it is the one who has the money that decides. The one without money has no action.
Many addicts believe that their bodies are very valuable and take too high prices. But it is, as in all business contexts, supply and demand that govern and there are significantly more people offering their bodies than there are they are willing to pay overpricing when it is only to turn around to get 100 new offers.
If after a while I feel that more money is needed than love for my partner, I will cut all the bands in seconds, the same as I do with prostitutes and escorts.
I know that the tradition in many countrys is that the man or foreigner should "take care of" a partner and her/his family. But I'm neither bound to traditions nor particularly desperate. To me it is obvious that all people take care of themselves, and for those who fail to do so, they should turn to authorities or homes for people with intellectual disabilities. I'm neither a bank, a lending institution nor a social office and I like strong people who are proud to be independent. I can help others sometimes if I want and have the opportunity, but never after cheating or begging. I let no one use me and I never use others.
If I find a good partner with low income I can pay all I anyway have to pay, rent, electric, water, but all other he/she have to pay himself.
Real love can never working in a dependent relationship.
Our time witch hunt.
Today's witch hunt, the hunt for pedophiles has gone too far. The last witch hunt stopped after a few years, so comes also the pedophile hunt to do. But the children who grow up during this time will be afraid of everything from nudity and the natural human body to other people and especially men. We will get this scare propaganda back from our children when they are big enough to decide their own lives. And presumably, there will be a new Flower Power wave, where they go against everything they were prevented from in their childhood and live out their sexuality to the full. And maybe we lose them for ever.